Tuesday, February 2, 2010


So I know I have been missing in action but its mainly cause I ain't had a date since the toe dude.  lammmmmmeeeeeee!  

Why?  I'm afraid!  Maybe I should change my challenge?  Or cancel it?  I struggled with this for 2 weeks and I decided I need to have some rules.  So yes I know one is no one is coming to my house.  lol. 

But what else should I include? 

On another note I need some help getting dates.  HELP!!!  I don't know where to go, what to do, how to go about it.  I guess I know why I'm single now huh?  LOL.  Any suggestions out there in the blogosphere?  I did try crazyblinddate.com but guess what no one in my criteria was available.  I'm going to try again and keep it wide open...oh lord.  :)  Any other ideas? 

On a story point---Should return offenders count?  I have a few dudes I used to date that always seem to come back on the scene.  It's like my mother said...they always call again.  And man if they don't.  Anyhow, this one guy who we will call "the comic" has been trying to make a comeback.  I keep saying no to going out again...maybe I should and add him to the story trail.  There are definitely some funny quirks about dude that I can share which would be very entertaining.  Let me know if you want to hear about the return offenders too. 

There are lot of to do's from you the readers.  So I shall end it with this....It's up to you what my next steps are.  So respond or I won't know what you want. 



  1. I say go out with all who ask just to be sure.
    Try bookstores, coffee shops or hardware stores like Home Depot.
    You are such a wonderful woman... we have to find you a nice man!!!

  2. GP,

    DO NOT GIVE UP!! I know the dating scene can be sooo discouraging. I think you should give the repeat offenders a try if nothing you will get a funny story.lol. Also do the crazyblinddate.com. I signed up but they couldn't find me a date and I got discouraged but I'm on again with hopes they will find me someone. I think you should try going out to events in the city that's what I'm doing. Also put up a DATING profile maybe on plentyoffish.com. I'm on there now and it's not horrible. OMG I feel like WE are in the same boat. We shoud be BFF lmao.


  3. two ideas:

    1. get a t-shirt that says "date me... i wont say no"
    2. ask someone you are interested on on a date... call it the forward approach.. then write about that shit foo!

  4. Try Match.com--I would say Eharmony but I have aggression with them because either dudes were super thirsty or flaked out right when it seemed like it would be and interesting meet-up

  5. Good idea Jess. I am going to order a shirt. That's genius.

  6. Definitely write about EVERYTHING. It gives me hope :) I just did the speed date thing. HILARITY! Also, not a bad way to spend a friday night.